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Post by Stuff The Magic Dragon on May 6, 2019 20:06:19 GMT -5
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Post by Penny Hardaway on May 6, 2019 23:28:45 GMT -5
Girls have needs bro, it seems to me you filled her emotional need but her physical need wasn't being filled. Unfortunately most girls associate sex with being trully wanted/loved because all they see is guys wanting/loving sex/porn. Thats why long distance relationships dont work, most men don't need sex to tell them they are loved or wanted, women need both physical and emotional reassurance to feel loved , they are just emotional creatures like that.they need sex and someone to talk too. Needy women! Just playing
im not sure if you party but after a night of partying what do must people want at the end of it? To go home or be with someone for multi reasons! Don't you think its weird she says she doesn't deserve you after a night of partying?
I assume she broke up with you because after a night of partying she did something with another guy and instead of breaking your heart by telling you what she did , she decided to just end the relationship and slowly distance herself from you because continuing with you emotionally and him physically was probably eating her up inside , which in itself could be a good sign as she cares about not leading you along...
Dont know how much you like her but if you are in love with her you don't let her go without finding out the truth it maybe something that can be fixed or something you may forgive. Just tell her be an adult and out of respect to tell you if she did end up meeting another guy or doing something with a guy during the time you guys were talking and if she didnt then its definitely worth fighting for love but if there is someone else involved then it gets sketchy. Was it a need she was fufilling (horny and drunk/high) or was it lust(wanting/loving) for another man would be the question
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Post by Yeezy on May 7, 2019 2:05:15 GMT -5
What the fuck someone delete the thread now please
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Post by Scott Pilgrim on May 7, 2019 6:32:04 GMT -5
Girls have needs bro, it seems to me you filled her emotional need but her physical need wasn't being filled. Unfortunately most girls associate sex with being trully wanted/loved because all they see is guys wanting/loving sex/porn. Thats why long distance relationships dont work, most men don't need sex to tell them they are loved or wanted, women need both physical and emotional reassurance to feel loved , they are just emotional creatures like that.they need sex and someone to talk too. Needy women! Just playing im not sure if you party but after a night of partying what do must people want at the end of it? To go home or be with someone for multi reasons! Don't you think its weird she says she doesn't deserve you after a night of partying? I assume she broke up with you because after a night of partying she did something with another guy and instead of breaking your heart by telling you what she did , she decided to just end the relationship and slowly distance herself from you because continuing with you emotionally and him physically was probably eating her up inside , which in itself could be a good sign as she cares about not leading you along... Dont know how much you like her but if you are in love with her you don't let her go without finding out the truth it maybe something that can be fixed or something you may forgive. Just tell her be an adult and out of respect to tell you if she did end up meeting another guy or doing something with a guy during the time you guys were talking and if she didnt then its definitely worth fighting for love but if there is someone else involved then it gets sketchy. Was it a need she was fufilling (horny and drunk/high) or was it lust(wanting/loving) for another man would be the question Not sure about the first part but the 2nd half got me really thinking, and was really good advice! Yeah, I have full intentions to just move on right now, gonna have a nice long break then maybe I'll reconnect with her on social media. Would be the best if I wanna forget or if I want a fresh start with her. Thanks Penny. |
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Post by Scott Pilgrim on May 7, 2019 6:34:49 GMT -5
What the fuck someone delete the thread now please bahaha yea, for the most part nearly all of the advice I've read so far has helped me out a lot, though there are some sprinkles of sketchy thinking. all in all thanks guys |
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Post by Scott Pilgrim on May 7, 2019 6:41:31 GMT -5
I'll be honest, this was a bit of a TLDR for me, however: I just now am in the middle of something that has me a little f'd up romantically--feeling all that sappy shit but it's not super likely to work out. What did I do? I went out in the middle of the desert, with some good old friends of mine, and did some acid and other drugs. I feel a lot better now. Maybe that's not your thing--I wouldn't encourage folks who aren't about drugs to go do them just bc they're sad. Personally, I happy to be hippie trash from Eugene, Oregon, so this fits my pre-existing MO. But, my point is, get with some people who you know are dependable and you enjoy, and do something a little adventurous to get your mind off things, maybe that can shift your perspective to feeling more content with where you are and where you're going. Remind yourself who you are, that you have great qualities, and that people want to be with you. Good luck man. Ahahahaha, might not wanna do that in the middle of exam year but might put it on the list for the holidays/schoolies. My equivalent of that drug trip right now is that my friend group I sit with (who are predominantly made up of girls) all want to take me out for emotional ice-cream and food after I told them about the breakup this week. Might not be too adventurous though ahahaha Thanks for the help Scalabrine, I'm also feeling less sad about trading away De'Anthony Melton LOL Edit: Also... damn you really do look like the White Mamba! ...except longer hair :o |
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Post by Doc Rivers on May 7, 2019 7:31:11 GMT -5
Some of 720s best moments came after billy breakups Was 720 created to be your new lover in place of an old one? |
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Post by Penny Hardaway on May 7, 2019 7:40:03 GMT -5
Girls have needs bro, it seems to me you filled her emotional need but her physical need wasn't being filled. Unfortunately most girls associate sex with being trully wanted/loved because all they see is guys wanting/loving sex/porn. Thats why long distance relationships dont work, most men don't need sex to tell them they are loved or wanted, women need both physical and emotional reassurance to feel loved , they are just emotional creatures like that.they need sex and someone to talk too. Needy women! Just playing im not sure if you party but after a night of partying what do must people want at the end of it? To go home or be with someone for multi reasons! Don't you think its weird she says she doesn't deserve you after a night of partying? I assume she broke up with you because after a night of partying she did something with another guy and instead of breaking your heart by telling you what she did , she decided to just end the relationship and slowly distance herself from you because continuing with you emotionally and him physically was probably eating her up inside , which in itself could be a good sign as she cares about not leading you along... Dont know how much you like her but if you are in love with her you don't let her go without finding out the truth it maybe something that can be fixed or something you may forgive. Just tell her be an adult and out of respect to tell you if she did end up meeting another guy or doing something with a guy during the time you guys were talking and if she didnt then its definitely worth fighting for love but if there is someone else involved then it gets sketchy. Was it a need she was fufilling (horny and drunk/high) or was it lust(wanting/loving) for another man would be the question Not sure about the first part but the 2nd half got me really thinking, and was really good advice! Yeah, I have full intentions to just move on right now, gonna have a nice long break then maybe I'll reconnect with her on social media. Would be the best if I wanna forget or if I want a fresh start with her. Thanks Penny. They do bro trust me girls need that physical attention but dont want to sound whorish by saying it ever other day.They want feel to irresistible in a sense , every girls wants to be wanted in that way. Saying they are pretty is nice and all but eventually they want you to show them how pretty a.k.a how much you want to have sex with them without them bringing it up, obviously in a relatiinship setting. |
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Post by Stuff The Magic Dragon on May 23, 2019 11:55:29 GMT -5
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Post by Reggie Miller on May 24, 2019 22:57:48 GMT -5
Just do the things you love without her.. you gotta move on bro.. I was on that same position that I can't let her out of my mind but my friends, family and my hobby helped me to move on. Ther are many girls out there but don't look for her replacement just yet. Just take your time and the pain will heal on itself.
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Post by Scott Pilgrim on May 24, 2019 23:26:10 GMT -5
Just do the things you love without her.. you gotta move on bro.. I was on that same position that I can't let her out of my mind but my friends, family and my hobby helped me to move on. Ther are many girls out there but don't look for her replacement just yet. Just take your time and the pain will heal on itself. Lol, yeah I've been doing that, already moved on, deleted her off social medias. Time has helped and also looking at other girls as potential options. 😎 Feeling good despite the amount of homework I gotta do this weekend.  |
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